||DEALING WITH REJECTION
LIST OF SCRIPTURES
Matt. 5:3 (Rejected are "poor in spirit") Do you feel poorly?
Matt. 5:43-44 (Love your enemies) Would solve a lot of your problems!
Rom. 12:3 (Not to think of himself more highly) Would not get rejected!
I Cor. 10:12-13 (Take heed lest he fall) Pride - Ego - Vanity
II Cor. 5:14-15 (Not live unto themselves) Be generous and think of others!
Eph. 6:4 (Fathers do not provoke children) Not the mothers!
Phil. 4:8 (Think on these things)
James 1:5-8 (Double-minded man) Will not receive anything from God!
I Peter 4:12 (Fiery trial) We go through many trials!
Rejection includes fear of rejection and self-rejection in this common demon family.
Except for the sins of the ancestors, rejection is generally where the demons first attack someone and because of the parents, this can be in the womb. Rejection is one of the biggest problems of the human race!
Rejection is defined as reject, refuse, repudiate, decline, deny, rebuff, repel, renounce, discard, throw away, exclude, eliminate and jettison.
Have you had these feelings before? Rejection is very common among Christians. Love is the opposite of Rejection.
THE ROOTS OF REJECTION (EXCERPTS)
As for my people, children are their oppressors, and women rule over them. 0 my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths" (Isaiah 3:12). Children rule the parents and wife rules the husband; this is a matriarchal society!
The curse of destruction of the family priesthood (which is centered in the father and usually is the result of inherited family curses) paves the way for the spirit of Rejection in a child. Father is the priest and head of the home!
Frustrated by his lack of leadership and her inability to respect him as a man, the woman (who herself may have inherited curses of dominance) begins to take over and direct the home by the Jezebel spirit. Men go after wine, women and song - such as adult toys, outdoors, sports, etc. to escape the wife!
The child is caught up in the conflict between the parents and becomes its chief victim. Children are the main victims of divorce!
The spirits in the mother will coerce the male child, forbidding him to assert his masculinity or to engage in activities which would develop him as a man. This pattern develops homosexual men!
The progression of destruction in the life of a female child is much the same as that of the boy, except that she will consciously or unconsciously absorb and manifest the same attitudes and spirits which drive her mother. Watch how your children have your same bad habits!
There is a definite pattern to the entrance of Rejection, which in turn opens the door for Rebellion:
1. Curse of destruction of the family priesthood (centered in father).
2. Curses and spirits of withdrawal of the father and dominance by the mother.
3. Spirit of improper discipline (usually works through the mother, either over permissive or too harsh) may associate with the curse of rebellion against discipline on the child's part.
4. Spirit of lying to escape punishment.
5. Curse and spirits of guilt.
6. Curse and spirits of distrust (resulting from guilt).
7. Curse and spirits involving lack of communication between parents and child.
8. Curse and spirits of rejection ("My parents don't love me" or "I can't even talk to them etc.").
REJECTION, WITCHCRAFT CONTROL, AND UGLINESS (EXCERPTS)
The hellish "ping pong" game played with hapless victims by the spirits of Rejection and Rebellion has been spelled out by the Hammond's. Everyone working in DELIVERANCE should read Pigs in the Parlor by Frank Hammond, with particular attention to the chapter on Schizophrenia. The demons of Rejection and Rebellion whipsaw the people back and forth between these opposite emotions!
Rejection is such a common malady that it is found everywhere to some degree or another.
Discovery of an out-of-wedlock pregnancy usually results in anger, upset and dismay in the parents of their child.
The curse of Rejection from the Womb has opened the door for many tormenting spirits in scores of people with whom we have dealt. Did you know that you can be rejected by your parents while you are in the womb?
Over and over people have reported life-long trouble by seemingly groundless but crippling rejection and various kinds of fears.
In some individuals, such spirits only produce discomfort and uneasiness.
A knowledge of the binding and casting out of evil spirits, and loosing the spirits of God (to counter and cancel the evil ones) is essential (Matt. 18:18; Mark 16:17-18).
There is a demonic entity called Witchcraft Control and he is able to bind other spirits in a person, particularly those involving habits such as smoking, drinking and sexual lapses. In order for the victim to be freed completely, all witchcraft curses must be broken from his family (back to ten generations on both sides) or from any other quarter. All legal holds and legal grounds must be taken from the enemy in the name of JESUS.
We have observed that people with heavy rejection spirits (usually including Rejection from the Womb) sometimes are rather homely and plain. A demon called Ugliness is found in many persons.
Perhaps you have noticed that people very often look ten to twenty years younger in their casket than when alive. Many times in DELIVERANCE, we see people change before us. They look younger, softer and more relaxed.
Schizophrenia is a very common problem. Some authorities in the field of mental illness estimate there may be as many as fifty million schizophrenics in the United States. This is about one out of eight persons. Schizophrenics account for half the population in psychiatric hospitals. Of course there are varying degrees of schizophrenia. Some cases are acute while others are quite mild. Many schizophrenics have never been treated professionally. Schizophrenia has remained a very baffling problem to mental health professionals. The cause and cure has remained shrouded in uncertainty.
The disturbance and disintegration of personality known as schizophrenia or dementia praecox is frequently encountered by the DELIVERANCE minister. I would estimate that as many as one fourth of those who come to us for DELIVERANCE are found to have the schizophrenic pattern. The Lord has graciously given to Frank and Ida Mae Hammond a special revelation on the problem which enables us to deal with such cases more effectively.
The core of the schizophrenic is Rejection and Rebellion.
Schizophrenia always begins with Rejection! It commonly begins in childhood or infancy and sometimes while the child is yet in his mother's womb. There are many causes for rejection. Perhaps the child was not wanted. It may have been the wrong sex desired by one or both parents. The conditions in the home may have been unsettled. There are many "doors" that lead to rejection. Did you want your children and were they the right sex? How about your parents?
For example, suppose the schizophrenic nature is in the mother. The demons will pick out one or more of her children to feed down through. The schizophrenic mother feels rejection. She is the one who is primarily responsible for feeding love into the family. The rejection within herself creates problems in her relationships with the child. The child is opened for rejection by the mother's instability.
Now, one can have a rejection spirit and not be schizophrenic. In other words, it is all in the matter of forming a personality. You can have a rejection spirit and still manage to form your own personality and be secure in yourself.
Rejection is the control demon in one of the personalities set up within the schizophrenic. Rejection depicts a withdrawn type personality. (It is a feeling within - it is agony within - it is a starvation of love - it is insecurity - it is inferiority - it is fantasy - it is unreality - it is all on the inside - "I don't share in this."). Do you feel loved? Can you love others? Do you try to avoid contact with other people?
Sexual perversions represent an extreme attempt to overcome rejection. Sexual experiences, real or imaginary, can never satisfy the need for genuine love. They are the Devil's substitutes for real love and leave a person ridden with frustration and guilt. Sex is not love; did you know that? How many one-night stands have you had in seeking love?
The person who has a deep sense of rejection feels insecure and inferior. Do you feel inferior?
Since the person has been rejected or fears rejection, he is driven to pamper self...to push self. He is thereby trying to overcome feelings of rejection. One who feels rejected wants to feel important.
Extracted by permission from Gene Moody’s book: Deliverance Manual. To buy a copy,